I'm the school holidays I told this girl who I was really good friends with I loved her over a text. When we came back over the holidays she didn't talk to me and a while has pasted since then. I really need help to salvage the situation, we were great friends before and now nothing. I love her but have never had the courage ever to ask her. Again about how she felt. What should I do? P.S she may have a boyfriend.
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Is does take a lot of courage to say you love her but you also have to think how she may be feeling, she may be confused or embarrassed by the situation , you have to speak to her and say you really miss being friends with her . Hopefully you guys will become friends again and maybe as you grow closer to her and get a bit older she may realise she has feelings for you too , but everything takes time .
You definetly need to go and talk to her. She was probably surprised about what you told her and doesn't know what to do. She may not have the same feelings for you and probably feels stuck and doesn't know what to do other than ignore you, but you cannot leave the situation like that. You need to sit down with her and just tell her to her face. Make sure she tells you how you feels and then u can go from there.
Hope it works out!
Well it was not a good way for her to respond like this but thats life you need to handle such situations. I know what you are going through right now but you will have gather all your courage and talk with her face to face regarding this. You already know that she didnt respond well to earlier communication so don't push you love things around. Tell her you could be friends as you were earlier . once you are friends dont express you love through words but make her feel. Care for her and make her feel special. Still if she is not interested i would suggest move one and life will give you other chances as there are so many girls out there of your type.
Man u commited a grave mistake...... You know around most girls you have to take it slow and methodical and not just jump to conclusions like that.....-(like live or die just let it rip) dont be like that-.But if she does love you then be patient she will admit it (even if only to her friends). So be good friends with her friends and they just might let the secret slip. It also may change the way she looks at you (in a good way I mean).
If she did not give you any positive or negative answer, you should take a step back and give it some time. She might not feel the same way but don't be disheartened. You guys can always remain friends, be the bigger person and show her that you understand that she might not feel the same way and you'll always be there for her if she needs someone:-) The reason why she won't talk to you might be the fact that she's afraid of leading you, let her know that you understand and she'll soon be comfortable to be on good terms with you again. All the best to you.
Girls are a lot different than boys and you have to surprise them in a way that would make them jump up and down and say she likes you to, but you can't suprise her in a way that will make her stop talking to you I'm sure sure your a very intelligent intellectual, but you really just try to talk to her and not scare her while you do it.
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