I'm the school holidays I told this girl who I was really good friends with I loved her over a text. When we came back over the holidays she didn't talk to me and a while has pasted since then. I really need help to salvage the situation, we were great friends before and now nothing. I love her but have never had the courage ever to ask her. Again about how she felt. What should I do? P.S she may have a boyfriend.
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It may have just shocked her a bit. She may be afraid to talk to you because she doesn't want to lead you on when she sees nothing there. Try not to worry about it because if it's not meant to be it wont be, which means there's probably something better in store for your life. If you guys were really good friends before then maybe you could try to salvage the situation by saying something like "I know we were great friends before and I hope what I said didn't change that, I just wanted you to know how I felt". Good luck!
I used to be the same way with this boy named Alex, best friends 3 years , told him I liked him, same thing! Accept I'm a girl, and obviously people don't get them so listen up I found out that the reason is they don't know what to say! Just think about it, best friends then this big decision! They might never talk to you again, but luckily it can be talked out of. This is some reasons how,
- Talk to her, bring up a subject about her siblings or ask how her pet is doing. Just bring up decent conversation.
- If she doesn't want to talk, ask her what's going on. Why she hasn't been talking to you.
- If she says she doesn't love you back say something like, " Sorry I didn't really know, can we still be friends?"
- Keep a grin on your face and hers, jokes will do. Don't stare! Or at least stay at her eyes and say how pretty they are! :)
- SUCK IT UP AND LEAVE! IF your a wimp about this you shouldn't have a girlfriends because you'll be put through more stuff then the ignoring things, so get prepared!
I hoped I help! I tried!
okay well...my bestfriend told me he loved me and i didn't feel the same and i didn't really wanna hurt him......i needed time to think before i started talking to him again but we're talking again and stuff so everythings okay now , if you've given her enough space talk to her.Grow the balls you need xD
a guy told me once that he l***s me and i got really pissed cuz i dnt believe in early teenage relationships.i didnt talk to him for over a month.but 1day,i walked to him and said ''your hormones are just developin,give it time,cuz the temptation is about to engulf you''.he looked at me and burst into laughter.maybe it's because you've been with her for quite long so u feel that thing shld improve.or maybe she's a lesbian. or feels like you are a sort of brother to her. if u wnt your peace of mind,dnt tell any of you or her or your mutual friends about it.find a day and approach her(dnt let her divided attention or f**k off attitude push u away) and tell her again,ask her for an immediate answ right there for the sake of your long term friendship.
Trust me dude it will get better. It may sound cliche but we men have to keep moving on, now i will say what a lot of people have said in the past. There is more fish in the sea. I HAVE been where you are, I lost everything but i'm not too devasted, because i never thought it WOULD happen. Guys need to remember that every girl is different maybe she just doesn't like you but you WILL find that special someone in the future. That's all I can say.
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