I'm the school holidays I told this girl who I was really good friends with I loved her over a text. When we came back over the holidays she didn't talk to me and a while has pasted since then. I really need help to salvage the situation, we were great friends before and now nothing. I love her but have never had the courage ever to ask her. Again about how she felt. What should I do? P.S she may have a boyfriend.
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I think you should be a man enough to say you’re sorry. You didn't expect to fall for her and didn't want to ruin your friendship. If she didn't want your sorry and continue to ignore you, you should stop, then if she talks to you and wants to be best of friends again then court her and lover her like nobody else could.
Girls are sometimes choice less, this is how they behave because if she reply to you, she make think that she too cheap, just give her some time and prove your love to her(caring, always be there for her, smile with her always) but if didn't work, know that she maybe dating another guy or might be afraid of being in a relationship.
It all depends what context you said it in, if it was a generally context like, haha love ya mate then its probably something else maybe not even you that'supset her. Whereas if it was a serious way ssuch as you mean everything to me... I don't want to loose you as a friend... I love you then she s probably scared , she's doent want to loose her friend by hurting his feelings or she doesn't want to try and loose you later in life. In future pluck up the courage to say it in person yes regection will hurt but nowhere near as much as leaving over someone for years then seeing them have a family with someone else? Speak to her if you like her that much nothing can hold you back.
obviously, be real and say "I told you how i felt and it is apparent that you don't feel the same and that is fine, I just don't want to lose you as a friend or for things to be weird now". then give her a high five and a smack on the butt. and tell her that's what they do in football. lol
jk about the smack on the butt...
I mean i would do it. But i'm also a girl and super silly
hi im a girl so ive got a kind of idea for girls that have been weird when guys say that I luv you.
my suggestion is that try seeing her in classes or lunch and recess and write a song to impress her that you really really love her or send something that really sparks her heart and then she may go back on track again. because some girls may get nervous to say that she might love you also and might be nervous for some reason. Also she might have a boyfriend probably doesn't want to tell you because you might get mad or something.
p.s I don't have experiences with guys!!!! not interested with guys!!!:(
At least you told her how you felt. You should ask her again (this time in personal) about how she feels. If she still doesn't talk to you, don't mind her. Don't waste your time on her 'cause there are other girls out there who would appreciate you more than her. My point is, you're friends and she shouldn't ignore and throw away your friendship just like that just because she knows you like her.
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