I'm the school holidays I told this girl who I was really good friends with I loved her over a text. When we came back over the holidays she didn't talk to me and a while has pasted since then. I really need help to salvage the situation, we were great friends before and now nothing. I love her but have never had the courage ever to ask her. Again about how she felt. What should I do? P.S she may have a boyfriend.
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Well mr mad one you truly are mad, but with my advice you can get her back.
1) Find out if she likes someone else.
However you try, if she likes someone else, you may never get her back. there's nothing you can do about it and you need to get over it. There are plenty of other girls out there who I'm sure will be charmed by you.
2) One way to find out if she likes someone else is to listen in on conversations of her girlfriends[unless you see her making out in the hallway with some other guy duh]. Girls tend to form small packs of 5-7 with best friends. It's a natural pack instinct [look up wolves] but that's another story. Girls going out with boys are usually on top of the pack...they will pass on the information to their friends and that's where you come in. And LISTEN don't EAVESDROP. there's a difference.
3)before this step please read note 1.
When you are sure that she's not going out with someone else, you can continue with step 3. Begin again from square 1. get to know her, and along the way you may find somethings that you never knew and you may be surprised by what you don't know about her.
Start by saying hi in the hallway, slowly start siting near her during lunch break. Again getting to know her girlfriend is vital to this step. Girls do not like boys they do not know at their tables.
4) After a week or two of building your friendship again, try gifting her a flower. Try red roses or white orchids. They symbolise love.
5) Wear a little of red[ not glaring red but a subtle shade] and try to wear a mild deo or whatever. She'll smell it when she bends toward you and do make sure its the one she loves.
6) Over time she might feel comfortable enough to talk about her feelings, and when she opens up don't go saying' I knew it' or 'you ****'. Be passionate......she is after all your best friend.
Note: You think that somethings wrong with you, but maybe she's not ready to be loved yet, or she doesn't like you plain and simple and there's nothing you can do about it. You cannot force her to like you, you can only influence her and hope.
All the best.
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he asked for an answer not all that!!!
yes do that it works everytime(:
Learn how to rap/sing her favorite songs or just pray to god for our brothers in the friendzone
I think she's not talking to u because...
1) You said it over a text which made her feel like you have no feelings at all
2) That made her feel socially awkward and she does not know how to take it so she is avoiding you as best as she. If that is the case than give her time to breathe and she will soon talk to you.
3) She does not like you that way and does not know how to tell you that
Well, text her again that you are confused about her response. It would not ruin the relation state as prior to sending the love text if she clears it out either positive or negative. You just thought by rechecking yourself that it was the right time and thing to do. You didn't want to just have emotional crush but true in your feelings and respecting her.
A hint for you, if she is so confusing in the beginning! She would be throughout!
If you are lucky, may be she was unprepared. Just give her a confidence to speak to you.
Invite her for a small talk so you can settle things once and for all. Tell her the truth that you love her and ask her about her feelings and if she is seeing other man. If she don't like you and if she have a boyfriend, tell her that things will be the same as before and no hurt feelings. Be a man!
that will be great...
I KNOW EXACTLY what your going through. I told my good friend I loved her. believe in your self!! say it to her face when u get the chance. if she does have a BF all u can do is face facts and try to move on.if she breaks up with the guy u have another chance. full support dude
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I talk from personal experience.