I'm the school holidays I told this girl who I was really good friends with I loved her over a text. When we came back over the holidays she didn't talk to me and a while has pasted since then. I really need help to salvage the situation, we were great friends before and now nothing. I love her but have never had the courage ever to ask her. Again about how she felt. What should I do? P.S she may have a boyfriend.
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well first of all never tell a girl you love her over a text... they wont believe you. secondly if she has a boy friend respect that she has a boy friend. and if you told her this while she's dating this guy he probably told her that she wasn't allowed to hang out with you anymore.
dude she could feel the sameabout you. but she could just be a little embarrassed or shy around you now. or maybe she felt you came on to quickly. maybe you could apoligize to her for making her feel akward and just give her time to think. if she never answers say " its okay if you dont feel the same way as i do but i need to know . it hurts more that youve started avoiding me and whatever your gut feels is right you should choose and i wont be mad." if she still ignores you she wasnt worth the effort. dont waste your love
Not sure how old you are....but she may have been shocked. She liked you before as a friend. But since you told her you "loved" her that is another story.
Text her and tell her..."I just love you as a friend only." I am sorry it came out wrong.
Please forgive me."
Hopefully, you can do that.
If i was the girl i would understand and still be friends.
Now if she won't text you back, then get it out of your mind and let it be.
Chalk it up to that is the way she is. Then let it go.
I've had this situation happen to me many times so I'm just going to tell you how I felt.
One time I had a guy best friend that I would constantly talk to, and I liked talking to him and stuff, I didn't want to be anything more. Then he sprung an "I love you" over text and we ended up not talking for months. I did miss him but it was just to awkward because I didn't love him back-I only liked him as a friend, but he loved me. I didn't want to make him feel bad and torture him either or whatever. Like I didn't want him to talk to me and be in love with me but constantly dealing with "I don't love you back". That's just cruel.
But in your case, maybe it's different. Maybe she does love you back and it just surprised her. And if she has a boyfriend that could have something to do with it to. Maybe you should ask her because I don't know her side of the story.
Bro it doesnt means tht she had left uh :)
she hates uh or hvng angry on uh
every answers are jst stupid ones :)
Its natural no girl will directly come tu uh and give a big hug and kiss on ur cheek its in films or rare ones
Ones she was a frnd and everyone will automatically start to lovr a girl who become friend with her :)
nw u go nd apologize and tell her tht u see her as a frnd bfre bt u love her mre thn tht she will be angry thats sure one
its not angriness actuallu its jst a thinking tht uh did to her u saw her lyk tht nd all
convince her first and put a smile on her face
Don't leave her follow her as a life partner say her again :)
Well, I guess she was freaked out, and unsure of her feelings. Don't bring the subject up again - the L-word makes girls worried. Also, if she may have a boyfriend, it wouldn't be really wise...just build up the relationship again, talking and saying hello. Once you two are comfortable, it's hard to say you have a crush because she might reject you again. Reminder: It was awkward. Be there for her, and maybe soon if you brave you can ask her out.
Sonetmes being friends first is horrible for any type of relationship because it messes up the bf/gf thing it destroys the friendship completely if the relationship doesn't qork. Possibly ask to take her out to get to know her and take it slow? Then again... You can't force anything. Good luck
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