im a 16 year old boy and i recently got into an relationship with a 14 year old girl..
i know 2 years isn't alot but right now it seems such a big difference.. i mean i recently graduated from highschool but she has to do another 5 years at her school (yea she's smart) i just don't know how to explain people in college that my girlfriend is still in highschool.. im so confused right now i mean i like her but the age just bothers me.. please help
Girls - is it Ok for a 16 year old boy to date a 14 years old girl?
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- 3+ months ago by noindentity
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I know the chronological age difference is nothing. However the maturity level is everything and if you are headed to college this early that maturity level is going to grow wider. 5 years left of school means she will be 19, 3 years older than you when you graduated so that doesn't sound exceptionally smart to me. It's actually longer than normal.
You will be hanging out with older people sharing ideas and experiencing life in a whole different world. The longer you are with them the less mature she is going to sound. Not her fault but I think because of the circumstances this is a no-fault break up some where that will happen.
Best of luck!
You have to decide how much you like this girl, and how much the age difference bothers you. I'm 15 and recently dated a 17-year-old. The deciding factor is how slow your willing to go. Are you willing to have a girlfriend you can't see a whole lot because you're at different stages of your lives? Are you willing to defy more like than not a parent or parents that don't approve? Are you willing to not do things that are more for your age group with your girlfriend? Are you willing to do things that are more for hers? Are you willing to stand proudly in front of your peers and say my girlfriend's 14? If not, then you probably aren't mature enough to handle that relationship. And that's ok. I wasn't. Maybe try again when you're both adults so that you're in the same stage of life. If you are, congratulations. And good luck.
It's not about age,it's about mentality,
when I was 20 I liked 17 years old guy and it's a huge age difference when you're a girl,but I didn't feel it,cause he was mentally older than 17 yo.
So,if you really like her,she's your soulmate,whatever,it's not a problem,
it's not a problem at all,
you're 16,she's 14,you're almost at the same age.
It's not about age,it's about mentality,
when I was 20 I liked 17 years old guy and it's a huge age difference when you're a girl,but I didn't feel it,cause he was mentally older than 17 yo.
So,if you really like her,she's your soulmate,whatever,it's not a problem,
it's not a problem at all,
you're 16,she's 14,you're almost at the same age.
Well, if I were her Mom, she would be in deep deep trouble with ME. 14 is way too young to be messing around with boys, period. YOU, need to focus on your LIFE and stay away from little girls. My 3 daughters are extremely intelligent, pretty, and feisty as hellcats, but they were NOT allowed to "date" until they had drivers licenses. I have no respect at all for any parent who allows dating at 14 years old, and you should question that too.
I'd honestly say ages are just a scientific theory an age really makes no difference either way. I mean hell look up Japans age of consent and yada yada (It's 13 if you didn't know but that's beside the point) I'm saying life is a mystery and why let an age difference try to keep a relationship from working out.. Hell most people don't even go to university these days.. Well depending on the country I guess..
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