I've been dating the girl for 2 years. (Senior year of high school and just finished Freshman year of college). We dated in the earlier years of high school too, but I admit I was too immature back then.
Anyways...
First month started out great. Then she started lying to me.....a lot. I kept giving her chance after chance after chance...horrible mistake. She took advantage of that. She would lie to me, and cover it up so good that she would make ME FEEL BAD for questioning her. She thrives off of drama. She snoops around my email accounts and laptop trying to find pics of girls and porn. Every guy watches porn. If he doesn't, he's either lying or he's gay. All my friends say I need to leave her, I'm too young for this much stress and drama. But it's NOT THAT EASY. I love this girl more than any girl that i've ever dated. She is my FIRST serious relationship/love.
WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?
What do I do when my relationship is going to shit, but deeply love the girl?
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- 3+ months ago by INeedHELP
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- school, college, high, girl, love, girlfriend, year, dating, senior, relationship, problem, finished, shit
Answers (68)
My ex was like this but in male form, let me say something if she keeps lying its only going to get worse i feel like the pain of getting lied to was worse than the moving on process, maybe ask to go on a break and if she comes back then try and make things worse but if she lies again take that as a sign that she isn't right for you
I know I'm super late but I'm still going to answer this question. I honestly think you should leave her, I know it won't be easy. It won't be easy at all you'll feel so much pain for a while but eventually it'll go away, A girl who has no trust in you is not worth it. You should talk to her or leave, but if you're doing something that you aren't suppose to then that's also your fault and you should be honest with her.
Best thing is not to throw the problem away as this is the worst u can do best thing is you have to FIX it. Fix it by talking with her and be open ask her why she lies to you and tell how much u love her gain each others trust. U should not love her because you need her u should need her bc u love her and if she doesn't want to be open and still lies to you you should leave her beacuse you deserve better socialize until you find a better girl but don't give up on her if she loves u as much as you love her and you should figure that out too. (;
i know the immediate reaction would be to leave her as it would 'relieve' you of your stress. Just know that if she is pressuring you into believing she is innocent, leave her. I just recently went through a break up, it was my first too, he did it in the meanest way possible but i didn't care because i knew the relationship wasn't working and at some point i would have to break up. If i were in your position, I'd break up. It's possible she might break up with you first but nobody would want that. Also if she constantly checks your devices for communication to girls or for porn it means she doesn't trust you and trust is a massive factor in a relationship. So I'll say it once again: BREAK UP WITH HER!
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