I've been dating the girl for 2 years. (Senior year of high school and just finished Freshman year of college). We dated in the earlier years of high school too, but I admit I was too immature back then.
Anyways...
First month started out great. Then she started lying to me.....a lot. I kept giving her chance after chance after chance...horrible mistake. She took advantage of that. She would lie to me, and cover it up so good that she would make ME FEEL BAD for questioning her. She thrives off of drama. She snoops around my email accounts and laptop trying to find pics of girls and porn. Every guy watches porn. If he doesn't, he's either lying or he's gay. All my friends say I need to leave her, I'm too young for this much stress and drama. But it's NOT THAT EASY. I love this girl more than any girl that i've ever dated. She is my FIRST serious relationship/love.
WHAT DO I DO?!?!?!?!?
What do I do when my relationship is going to shit, but deeply love the girl?
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- 3+ months ago by INeedHELP
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- school, college, high, girl, love, girlfriend, year, dating, senior, relationship, problem, finished, shit
Answers (68)
Make HER feel bad. Be a dick to her. since she's taking advantage of you, you should stop her. The man is the stronger one of the relationship. You can also be very confusing and mysterious. Do something that'll make her feel bad or jealous. A great way to make her be more into you is light a candle stick when shes not around. let it burn until halfway. then get a sharp object and carve a heart or many hearts into it. then when she comes over, light it and shell think youre seeing someone else, and she'll wanna lock you down fast. just my oppinion :)
learn to play the same game back!!!!!! a girl hates not getting attention!!!!!!! So show her how all inlove you are with her, dont phone after her, run after her be there but not there if you kow what I mean.. then she is going to think wtf is going on lol then she will come around like a little puppy wanting her old bf back and she will learn her lesson... hope this helps sounds rough but works, im a girl and im exactly like that lol
First you need to talk to her about it, be truthful but do not make her feel like you are blaming her for all your problems. If it really is a serious realationship you should be able to talk about it. Also you need to ask yourself if you give her reasons for snooping. Why doesn't she trust you? However you should not be lied to and you should be able to watch porn. If what you are telling is true and the talk does not change anything, you should break up. The relationship does not make you happy and you deserve to be treated with respect. It sounds like she takes you for granted. Good luck
I've learned that woman become insecure because of what they are doing they think that the mate is doing the same thing. She doesnt trust you because she doesnt trust herself. Give her an altamatom. Meaning if things dont change......your done. You definately dont need that in you life. Theres always someone out there that would love to love you and make you very happy and also would not do those things. Love does not hurt.
What you should do first is have her sit down with and have a mature conversion about your relationship. "Define the relationship (DTR) " . Ask her what she wants .Ask her if she truly has feelings for you.Ask her if she really what's to be with you.
She's lying to you , what does that tell you? She's unfaithful.
And maybe he isn't the one keep searching buddy you'll
Find the right one sooner or later
well it sounds like she really doesn't look at things like you do she might be going behind your back and trying to seek other means of a relationship other then the one she is in and if she finds another one she will hurt you greatly it her so that mean may take a little evaluation on your part to see the real girl you love is using that against you that's foolish on her part not to see what she has.
You are a true lover, I know it feels so bad when your girlfriend always lie to you. Go & tell her what you feel, tell her that you don't like all these things. If she still does all things, then I think you should leave her. Or you can do 1 thing, try to ignore her. I am sure if she really loves you, she will not able to tolerate your ignorance & then stop all these things.
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