I'm a teenage girl, and guys are sooo mean to me, but nice to everyone else. I I don't ask for much, I don't want a guy to choose me over his friends when he really wants to be with them, I don't care how they look, or how cool they are, or what they wear. I don't reject guys because they hate romantic things, in fact, I hate romantic things too! I'm not an annoying status updater on Facebook, and I don't take any annoying pictures with a "duckface" or peace sign (I only have picture of me when other people take them). I dress nice enough, I might wear something revealing occasionally, or something that makes me look good. I do my hair so that it nicely shapes my face, an I wear a little make-up, but not too much, and I don't get all worked up over how I look. I don't care about styles or what's "in" at all. I play video games, I don't watch romantic movies, I don't do ANY stereotypical girl stuff. I don't even listen to new music, and I think people like Justin Bieber are butt ugly! I don't care if a guy is muscley, fat, or completely skinny. I just like it when people are nice, and have a good sense of humor. I let myself be noticed, but I don't flaunt myself either. I'm a unique person, and guys make fun of me for it. I've walked into rooms where they talk badly about me. Is it just because I won't put out for them? or is it something else?? Please help me!
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guys can be like that sometimes. know that it is okay. You sound like you like hanging out with the guys and you enjoy what they do because u do basically what guys do. Guys shouldn't be mean. That's not right. Just because u aren't one of the girly girls that's okay. Know that guys don't have to be mean about it and you are going to survive.
It's probably because that they want to see your reaction so they can really find out more about you your personality and I've been through this since prep to now and I'm getting insulted they used to be so nice and now they are jerks they just want to be the cool kid around.
you should act more girly able are you a tom boy because I used to act like one it ok if your are every girl have there own dissisons in life I mean some girls wanna be gad they wanna walk around looking just like boys but that not cute but imam tell you this if they talk about you honey theres is no way they can talk about you because I pretty shore they have something to talk about shoo girl im a teenager 15 and they don't got to like how you dress you cant judge a book by its cover every body is not perfect but I bet one day they yalll go grow up and then you going be rich while they on the other end stealing something but you don't no they might just look back on you and try to be your friend it might just take some time I went through that stage but not with boys with girls they were so jelouse because when I was in 9th grade I came in fresh every day and all they had on was some tight pants shorts shorts and some nock off so they look at me like well breanna I like your nails who did them I said yo mamma and walk off I swear and she called me a bitch I turned around away so fast I was like what you say she sais they be work I slap her across the face so hard my hand print was on her face but yea hope this helps a little:)
You want a guy to be nice to you but you say you hate romantic things. Romantic guys are usually nice! Guys who hate romantic things are not the best bet if you're looking for someone who won't be mean to you.
You don't ask for much and you don't care about a lot of things. That may seem like a positive, but it can be a negative for some guys. Some men like to get the girl that is harder to catch. Not annoyingly harder to catch though.
The things you point out that are annoying....those women usually have guys all over them. It may not seem right, but no matter how much a guy hates duckface pics or Justin Bieber, they really aren't looking at the duckface or her music selection as much as you think. They don't want one of the guys, they are attracted to a girl for female attributes.
Everyone is unique in their own way, and nothing you've said sounds overly unique. Not that it's a bad thing. I don't think it's because you won't put out or simply because you're unique. Ask someone who knows you personally and will be honest with you, what people are saying about you specifically.
I had this same problem... eventualy i left the school... Boys used to hit me, say bad things about me, and take pictures of me when I wasn't looking and send them to people. The whole experience just made me stronger though. You can do it. They won't be the only boys you'll ever meet.
I think you sound perfect just the way you are. Teenage boys can be jerks (sometimes). Just know that you rock, right now boys don't matter. When the right guy comes along, he'll know how amazing you are and he'll be lucky to have you. I can relate though, I wonder why boys don't like.me. Hang in ther, just.ignore them. It will all get better in the end.
I would have to follow you closely to see exactly what you are going through and then correct your actions or recommend some hobbies. Sounds like you just want to be accepted by others.
I don't know the rules on here. I'm new. Do we have to friend each other to give out facebook info?
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