me and my girlfriend text A LOT and we both want to keep talking but we don't have any thing to say after a while. what are some new conversation starters besides "how was ur day or whats up"
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I play twenty questions with my boyfriend or compliment him and tell him things I like about him. I get bored sometimes with my boyfriend too he'll say wryd And I'll say eating or layin down or something like that and ask him wryd and he tells me and I try to relate to what he says.
It's easy.
As per my experience, you should tell her what you did today, the whole story. She would be interested in listening to you rather than staying quiet.
If you don't know what to ask or what topic to start with then you should talk about general topics in which she is interested, or in which she is doing study, or working.
Dude, this happens to me all the time with my boyfriend. We wanna talk but there's absolutely nothing to talk about. The best way to start is with a question but if you guys wanna just goof around make up stuff. Type random letters like, "blalalalala" and laugh about it. Talk about things you've done together or in childhood that make you both laugh. This works if you guys are that close.
Well, honestly, I think if your running out of ideas what to say to one another, you should just drop the conversation like perhaps saying "Hey I gtg, ttyl love you." So it doesn't get any more awkward than it is. But if u want some conversation starters I'm glad to help. You can ask them about their favorite movie, then ask if they want to see that movie one day. You could also talk about funny memories you both had with eachother. Just don't get scared when you text her and just say what u feel.
you could ask her to go somewhere with you or just joke around. since shes your gf and you know her personality try to appeal to that side of her in a convo. really just try anything that you think would be cool to say like "lets go to the park" or " wanna go to the zoo with me tonight" anything that might make her smile.
not perfect advice but i tried hope it helped good luck dude!
If you text a lot try spending time with her in person and then actually speak to her. Your relationship will be a lot better then and then you'll have things to talk about when you've both gone home because you'll talk about the day you had and then plan something else.
I know how it is to think what to text. It took hours with me to figure out the perfect thing to say to my gf. You know at first I knew nothing about my gf. You should ask each other about your pasts. Anything can do, as long as you get to know each other more and more. Also ask about problems she's having and if she needs any help. If so try your best to help her and definitly don't let her down. And finally if you can't think of anything to tell, write a poem. When I did that to my gf, she would always reply with another poem and so it took hours to finish our conversations. Well I wish you good luck with it, take care;)
How about starting a "joke of the day" tradition? I used to do it with my ex. Just send her one joke a day, to start the morning with.
If you have a habit of reading the news each day, that's also a good source for conversation - choose something interesting that you read about and start with it (hey, did you hear about...). This is usually enough for a long conversation since you can talk about similar cases, what is your opinion about it, what's her opinion, is it scary, is it cool, would you like to do something like this yourself... the possibilities are endless.
Similarly, you could search for information about her interests. She likes biology? There are new breaks in the field everyday. She likes a certain movie genre? Look for recommended lists online and choose together with her some movies for a marathon. Then you could talk about the movies that you saw. She likes art? Talk to her about it.
If all else fails, just listen to her ^__^ people usually like to talk about themselves.
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