I have suspicions of my wife cheating, and I don’t know if I’m being paranoid or right, so I hope this helps you see my dilemma. A week ago, my wife and I went to the local social, she was quiet all night. I went to the toilet and next minute when I come out she’s talking to this muscular bald chap, my wife gave introductions, soon after I went to speak to some of my pals, and my wife was still chatting away and laughing. Two hour or so later, we got a taxi home, said goodbye and that was it. In the taxi she was talking about how she never met him before tonight but got talking about houses (ours is on the market). A few days later I came home from work on my lunch to see her, there was a car parked outside, I guessed it was one of her friends. I walked in the house but no-one could be seen, the television was on but no-one there, I shouted her name but there was no reply, I started to walk up the stairs when she appeared on the landing coming out of the bedroom with the bald chap, her hair was ruffled and blouse no fully buttoned, his t-shirt was creased like he’d just chuck it on. I asked what they was doing ad she replied that he was looking at the house, we went downstairs and I offered him a cuppa but he said he’d best be going. Minutes later I went to work. That evening I came home from work and found a ripped condom on the drive, my started to have further suspicions. Nut it could have been one of the boys, I was a lad once. I went upstairs to get changed to see the bed cover and sheets had been changed. What do you think?
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I'd say almost certainly there's a knife in your back and some horns on your head (and I have some experience in this arena). I've learned that asking straight up is pointless, as, if she IS a cheater, she's almost certainly also a liar.
Pretend like you're not suspicious. Hire a private detective to keep an eye on her, or, for a cheaper option, there are websites where you can order spy stuff. You can hide a camera in your bedroom, or put a thing in her car that will let you know everywhere she goes. You deserve the truth, and you ain't gonna get it from her. There are ways to find out, no matter how sneaky she is!
From what you described, it does sound like your wife did cheat. Especially when you said she came out the bathroom with her hair messed up. Now people are going to do what the want to do and believe who they want to believe. If you really want to be with your wife, then you may find it easier to just deal with it. Or, you could just leave and find someone better, thats if she did cheat. If so, then maybe you should just go because you deserve someone who is respectful and someone who's going to treat you right. I hope everything works out :) Best of luck.
Hello sir, I never like to accuse anyone of anything myself, but the day that you came home from work, it seems as if there really is something going on. Before you do anything to act on it, ask yourself what you're going to do if she's was cheating, ir if she wasn't. You need to be prepared for both instances. And yet, with the way they were dressed, and with the lack of answer when you first arrived home, I think the chances of her being unfaithful are extremely high. Good luck to you and your love
I know my response may unhelpful but I would say she is cheating. Condom, ruffled hair, unbuttoned blouse? Signs of cheating! I would confront her and ask her what that guy means to her. Don't be all like, "I KNOW YOU CHEATING!" Because it could be a misunderstanding (which it probably isn't). Also, arrange to hang out with the dude, if he regects all requests, it's weird. Maybe organise a dinner with your wife, the dude and yourself and see how tense it is. That's my advise!
There is this really cool thing, called communication. And, there are really cool people out there that specialize in helping people learn how to communicate, called mft's. They usually are paid around $100 an hour. Seems obvious to me she is using you, so pack up her stuff and put it outside with a note telling her to get out. Are you really as dense as you say, or is this your sick way of having fun? Either way, you need a lot of serious counseling!!!
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