... distract myself from my boredom.. I don't go out because people annoy me and are judgmental pricks. I have one best friend and she has a boyfriend so where drifting away, I aren't actually ugly I'm very pretty and people told me I should be a model, its just I have very low self esteem and I'm very shy.. I want to have friends , go out on the weekend have a boyfriend but it just seems it's never gonna happen.. My teenage years are shit so far what do I do?? :(
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How about not spend as much time on Facebook and meet some people, and if you and your friend are drifting apart you should do a movie night or a sleepover. If you want to meet more people go to a mall or park and ask people questions, or since you are 17 you will be living the nest soon and collage is a great way to meet more people, hang in there you got this!
I think people forget what it's like to be 17.. Geezz.. If you feel like you're losing your best friend, tell her you feel that way and plan a date together! Go do something you guys both like. I know how girls can be totally consumed by their lovers, it continues even into your 20s and can be extremely annoying. Don't spend to much time on Facebook, because life is happening now. If you're an introvert(look it up if you don't know what that is), so are a bunch of other people and that's fine. Maybe you can find someone that wants to hang out at home and chill, or that also wants to blossom more and find other people. However don't be too quick to judge those people out there that are getting drunk, because they haven't learned yet that there are other ways to have fun. And don't judge those pregnant girls, because either A. They are in love B. They trusted the wrong or C. All of the above. Put yourself out there whenever you can, but don't be willing to change yourself. You'll be surprised what a few years will do for you. I'm 24, and a lot has changed, I'm more mature but still feel like the kid when I go to the "adult" parties (a.k.a kid birthday parties, work parties, and such). You'll figure yourself out. Just hang in there, and be willing to risk an awkward or uncomfortable situation to help you figure out what you want, because it will only last a little while, and before you know it it'll be over.
I understand your fears of getting judge but that is life, people will always have to say about you and who cares? First thing you need to do is to go out and have friends. It will be hard at first but its the first step. And don’t judge people that they are judging you because it starts with you too, you are judging them already. Always remember, you can’t love and care for someone if you judge them quickly. Be kind, compassionate and appreciative.
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