I have a serious crush right now. I've never felt this nervous or shy around any guy that I've ever met before. I don't know why. He knows that I like him and he likes me too. The only problem is that we haven't exactly talked to each other much and I would like to. I just don't know what to say. Every time that I try to talk to him, it's like my body shuts down or my brain stops working and in the end I've only said one sentence to him. I can barely look at him cause I'm afraid that our eyes will meet and I won't be able to tear my self away. (this has happened many times) he smiles at me a lot so I suppose that's a very good sign. I just need help in finding some way to talk to him, preferably alone, so that I can clear up anything he may be confused about and hopefully become boyfriend and girlfriend.
I have a crush but I'm shy. I wanna talk to him alone, how could I get him alone?
Added 3+ months ago:
I no longer need help with this, it was a long time ago. But thanks to all the people who tried to help! You all were very nice!
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Hi blue I am in the same situation as you are in right now I am crushing really really really really really really hard on this much older in years guy when I am around him I can bearly speak to him a word he knows I like him and he likes me to but I shut down completely around him where I get nervous and all and start to play with my Phone or read a book I would like to talk to him one on one alone but I know I can't I see him everyday cause me and him are both volunteers at a nursing home I also catch him staring at me a lot and this isn't my first crush either I am fine with talking to other guy friends but when it comes to talking to him that's where the problem start what can I do if I want to talk to him with out being nervous and all
If you have a crush on him you should show him some keys for him to find out. There is nothing wrong liking someone or it will be too late for you to say what you really want. You should build up your self confidence and show him that you like her and eventually he will do the rest.
I'm really shy and nervous around boys, too, but I have observed them for a very long time. I also grew p with no sisters or girl cousins, so my entire family is nothing but boys, so I think I can help you out. :) If you have his number or you can reach him on Facebook or Instagram or something, try messaging him and tell him that you're nervous about talking to him. Explain what's happening, and that will show him that you're honest. Then, he may try to ease your nerves and tell you something like, "There's no need to be nervous." Or giving a really good piece of advice for talking to him. But just know, he may be feeling the same way. If so, try to take baby steps with talking to him. If you try to go full out all of sudden, it may blow up and get even more awkward than it already is. Like, you can start by saying hey to each other when you pass by in the hallway. I hope this helps?
I used to have this problem and I still kind of do. This might be stupid but it always works.. I just usually bring candy and give them to random people that I know around him. If I don't have candy, then I just 'accidentally' bump into him or if he's in a conversation with someone I know, then I'll just join in. You could always do the easiest one which is to start a conversation with him. If you feel awkward or scared, then make your friend get into the conversation. It should be better if your friend knows that you like him but even if he or she doesn't, then you could still probably talk to him.
The first thing is, are you allowed to have a boyfriend? Second of all, find a free time maybe after school or in-between classes to just try to let go of your worries. If he's smiling at you and he likes you, that means he will like for who you are. If you can't say anything, you can try practicing to a friend or in the mirror. What have you said so far?
i was where you are now :) i am usually a really shy person, but really outgoing with people i know. i started just talking to him online with some of his friends (was not should posed to happen) and as i got to know him i kinda felt like he was just a part of my friend group (but i still like him a lot) and i noticed that it was easier for me to talk to him irl instead. now we have a great relationship (not dating jet) where we both are comfortable to cuddle and show affection.
but i struggle to know if he likes me back, you know he does ;) just be you and be comfortable, pretend like you are on a cloud just passing buy and talking will just flow like the wind :D
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