I have a serious crush right now. I've never felt this nervous or shy around any guy that I've ever met before. I don't know why. He knows that I like him and he likes me too. The only problem is that we haven't exactly talked to each other much and I would like to. I just don't know what to say. Every time that I try to talk to him, it's like my body shuts down or my brain stops working and in the end I've only said one sentence to him. I can barely look at him cause I'm afraid that our eyes will meet and I won't be able to tear my self away. (this has happened many times) he smiles at me a lot so I suppose that's a very good sign. I just need help in finding some way to talk to him, preferably alone, so that I can clear up anything he may be confused about and hopefully become boyfriend and girlfriend.
I have a crush but I'm shy. I wanna talk to him alone, how could I get him alone?
Added 3+ months ago:
I no longer need help with this, it was a long time ago. But thanks to all the people who tried to help! You all were very nice!
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Blue, when it really good for you that's what happens, can't think,eat,sleep, all ways checking fb, even when your phone go's off you are wishing it was him even tho it's hard to keep a conversation going. All it is blue is love and that's a beautiful thing as i am sure you can agree.
hey chevey.. i have been going thru all ur answers and comments.. ur answers were soooo cooool and u are too smart..
Thanks,
I know what your dealing with im in the same problem but im gonna talk to my crush cuz we keep meeting in malls,libraries or easier to say public places so i think u should be strong and ask him out its never wrong for a girl to ask a guy out i mean its ok im gonnna do that on Monday in school wish me luck !!
- Andrea
I wonder what his name is.is it Alex o brien.l know him very well he tends to be shy he has always been that way but don't worry he will come around.
I like this guy too. I've known him for a while ever since 1st grade and I've liked him since 3rd grade and i just want him to be mine and how do i get him alone to tell him that i like him?
its hard for me to tell him because he's only in my band class and i want to tell him how i feel but I'm nervous just too. He makes me laugh and i love when guys make me laugh but i need to tell him at school somehow. i need help or answers?
Anyway just write him a note or something like that to give to him thats what I've been doing so maybe that will help
hi there,
i think i can help:).
well, if i were you, i'll make friends with him first.
if you're already good friends,
then if nobody's around, you can talk to him, after all you're really good friends.
it's okay. don't be shy if you're doing something right. only be shy if you're doing something wrong:)
Well I've tried doing that. I've ebpven tried having a friend talk to him for me, but that just proves I'm a chicken. How would I fix it to where I can talk to him like a normal person and not stutter or walk away because I'm shy??
Don't worry he ll talk to you.Just be Calm when he approach you.He just need a clear hint (look at him and smile).He will understand that you like him and then he will do the first move.You won't die trust me otherwise he is the guy.
thanks I have the same problem but ......... I don't know if he likes me or not so , im very shy and really nice to people but not to my enemies and some rude ppl can you help me plzz I cant do it like it was this boy he's soo hooooottttt I told ppl I like him but they told him he don't like me but he left so I have another crush...
Aaliyah , you can know if he likes you if he is shy or anxious around you.Is he?
Well I actually went out with him like 3 months ago and we ended up dating for like only 4 days and he actually just texted me last night asking if I would go back out with him and how he loves me and thinks I'm do beautiful and all that crap, but the past relationship ended bad so I don't think I'll take him back. But thank you anyway! :) I felt so lost and helpless when I liked him but now he feels tht way about me. Kinda ironic huh? Haha
lol si
1 yea
2 he's very popular (new kid this year)
3 somewhat if you call his locker a hangout spot
4 no not really
I just really need advice so I could possibly talk to him without being so scared to do it
You should drop real hints ! YOLO !
1) Yes
2) Yes
3) Yes, he's always really crowded by his friends who don't like me.
4) I think he likes this one girl but idk.
WHAT DO I DO??
Well..u r a girl..so things are easier... u control everything... soo..drag him some place that is usually empty and none passes by.. Me when someone teases me about those things then i say out loud "IF SOMETHING IS ITCHY THEN SCRATCH" thats gonnamake everyone look at that person and u can find ur secret corner....LoL.. iHoPe ThIs HeLpEd....GoOd LuCk......
im 12 years old and im a playboy so u know why i know alot.. i mean i could tell more but i jst wanna go easy..besides i have never ever ever liked someone in my whole entire life........
courage is being scared to death but saddling up anyway. if you really want that boy hun then go get him. make eye contact with him for a couple seconds. smile at him. find reasons to "accidently" brush up against his arm. sit close to him. but most importantly, be yourself.
If you have his number and are afraid to make the first move saying hey, i used to type something random and say it was sent to the wrong person, from this you can start a fully flowing conversation and stuff. Try and say something interesting that they could comment on:) hope this helps x
show him ur tits
Just for the record, this isnt my first crush. Haha. I've had about five boyfriends in the past. Plus I'm only a teenager so I have idea what love truly is haha! But I used to be very confident in everything I did and now it disappears whenever I see him or when I'm near him. I want my old confidence back but I want him as well. Any ideas on a good way to do that? Thanks for your comment though! It's kinda poetic! :)