my boyfriend got me a really expensive gift for christmas. i used to like him but now i just wanna be friends. i wanna break up and still be best friends. how?
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Have a friend do it. If your like most girls and dont have the courage to talk to him about it, then send a messenger. Just be ready for some questioning and a period of where you feel awkward around each other. But just being friends isnt really possible after a break up in most situations because those feeling tend to linger.
I went through the same thing, but I didn't want to be friends after wards. I called him on the phone and broke up with him, but really gently bc I don't wanna be mean. The trick is to sugarcoat everything, but not in an obvious way. Make sure you specify that you still wanna be friends afterwards so he doesn't get the wrong idea.
Well I'm a guy so if you want to break up with him and be friends that would be understandable at least your not out of his life. You should just sit down and talk to him women to man and just tell him how you feel, it might be hard for him but eventually he will get over it.
Just tell him. Dont act like you still love him cz trust me, he'll be more hurt if u pretend to like him than if you would break up... tell him how you feel, i cant promise you that he'll be okay about staying best friends because most people just stop talking to eachother after breaking up, but you can still try.
well just tell him like this"hey um i got to tell u something um i love the present but i know this is a hard time i dont want to be ur gf i love u but i realized something please be my friend and lets just start over by friends no gf or bf i still love u (walk away)\\\\
You just need to talk to him and explain how you're feeling. Dragging this on will make it worse and worse. So I think you should sit him down and explain things. It's hard, but he needs to know the truth. I had to do this a couple months back with my bf, and it was hard, but it had to be done, and we're on good terms now.
nn not like that tell him that u don't want to be his gilfriend or u does not love him any more but this going to hurt him