I'm the school holidays I told this girl who I was really good friends with I loved her over a text. When we came back over the holidays she didn't talk to me and a while has pasted since then. I really need help to salvage the situation, we were great friends before and now nothing. I love her but have never had the courage ever to ask her. Again about how she felt. What should I do? P.S she may have a boyfriend.
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She most likely has a boyfriend. But what you shoulda done was warm her up to the question. Ask her out on date like catch a movie at your place or hers. It happened to me last year during summer vaca. But me and her had a movie day and we held hands and cuddled. Then when we came back for school, we did not even talk. We gave each other looks and all. We txt and did all of that too. Then later on i found a girl that i fell deeply in love with. All of a sudden the looks she gave me were deadly. You never know what is going through a girls mind because its constantly think of something. Hope something snaps in her mind for you. Or she straight up points out shes taken. Best of luck
Personally since I'm a girl I think that she didn't know what to think because if she reacted that way she didn't know u had feelings for her. And telling her in text probably wasn't the way to go. U should give her some space and lay low for a while but sill talk to her and try to be friends with her
Well...if she has a bf forget her..but if u dont want to forget her then follow the following steps.....:::
1.Get her attention.. Say to her: Do u like me? She says: Go away/Jerk/you crazy?etc..
You say: All girls who like me always say those things to me..(like this u hav started a conversation with her...
She says: wat?/excuseme?etc...
You say:Well..u r pretty but pretty girls dont have personalities thats why they hide it through their beautifulness...
2. This is when she will be thinking... i think he likes me no he doesnt his jst sayin dat..no he really likes..me...She`ll think about those things...then you say: Oh i got something important to tell u..oh wait! i jst remembered i hav to meet someone...oh and i also noticed something strange about you..
3.(If u hav a cell phone then only u can complete all these steps) at home she will be thinking about wat u had to say to her..so she will wait for ur phone cal..(srry u had top mention to her earlier that u will call her or tell her later..) then text her oh yea i was wantin to tell u something..She will be very eager..so u call her now..say to her: oh yea! i was saying... ive noticed that u (hang up now) now she will be even more eager to know wat u hav to say to her. if she calls u dont be too surprised..jst lt the phone ring for a while then.answer it..ask if she likes someone..then say oh yea and..(hang up) this jst makes her more and more eager to want to know wat u r trying to tell her...she might call again and ask u why`d u hang up..say that the phone coudn`t connect that well coz the phone was on the hottest phone ever...
4.then text to her: Oh WoW!!! this has been so much fun..do u wanna go out...She might say: WAT!!!..Then u text her or call her saying: oh srry that wasnt for you..this will make her jealous.. which will make her forget about the things she wanted to know from you.
5.Do this often and she`ll become curious and maybe like you if ur good at it and u o it the right way..OK...IM 12 tears old..AND IM A PLAYBOY..THATS WHY I KNOW SOO MUCH ABOUT THIS STUFF...
I really really realllllyyyy hope..this workss.GoOd LuCk....make sure dont overdo it pliz...LoL.
Hi T.M.O. I Don't think your mad, you only made decision without thinking about plan B. I'm not here to say you did this and that wrong or what so ever. I am her to tell you that its okay. You sound still young. Yes you lost what you had in her but, it is not the end of the world. I know how it feels to loose someone I love and it is not easy to accept our losses but, we have to make way for change when the old stuff don't work. Like back in the day's you could tell the girl you love that you love here and it would be something beautiful. Then she would say I'll think about it, leaving you with hope as big as a mountain. Till you slowly loose your hope and forget about your feelings for her out of anger. In today's life thing do not work like back in the days. Things have changed. Young girls were forced to believe that when I guy tells her you love her, your are spoiling all the fun in being in love. Girls just wan't to have fun. So next time do not tell her that you love her but, show her that you truly are worth her love by the things that you do. Like telling her how beatifull her hair looks (girls like it when they get compliments for there hair) or tel her how mighty fine she looks today. Girls need to hear complements EVERYDAY. She'll come aroun. But for now it's time you move one and forget about her, love someone els instead. I know it is hard forget and it takes time when memory is full of fun times you had. So, At night when you think about her ask yourself. Is she worth this tears, THIS TEARS I SHEAD ON MY BED? In time you will get tire of crying over her. And when the time is right, then the feelings you have for here, YOU PUT IT IN A BUS because its not good for us. Don't be afraid to cry. But be strong and believe. Just because no one has been fortunate enough to realize what a gold mine you are, Doesn't mean you shine any less. Just because no one has come along to share your life, Doesn't mean that day isn't coming. Just because you deserve the very best there is, doesn't mean life is always fair. Just because your situation is not progressing right now, doesn't mean you need to change a thing about yourself. Its time you put yourself first, love yourself. Keep shining, keep hoping, and keep praying. Keep being exactly what you are already. COMPLETE
Ok first things first to tell a girl u love her though a text especially if that's your first time saying it is a bad move cause I mean thats something where if your gonna say it say it either face to face or over the phone atleast other wise its kinda like...is he serious? it kinda puts her in a awkward position and u put yourself in a postion to not receive a clear response cause she probably looked at ot and was like idk what to say so I just wont say anything. Im not sure if she likes u or not but she probably just confused or a bit overwelmed by your use pf the whole "L" word. If u had enough courage to tell her that u loved her go the extra mile and have enough courage to ask her how she feels. NOT OVER TEXT though or you might not get an answer.
text her again instead this time tell her that you were just joking around and you were really going to pull a prank on her and that you did not really mean that if she thinks you did not mean that she will let it go and she will start talking to you just tell her that you didn't mean that you actually love her you would just love to be her friend
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What if a girl is faking having a bf just to annoy u yet ud die 4 her