Ok so im a tall good looking guy, but i have the hardest time with women. I will walk up to them and talk to them to try and get to know them and things will seam to be going fine, I will continue to talk to them as im in the place where they work to try and get to know them so they will feel comfortable in me asking them out or getting there phone number because i know if i ask them when i first meet them they'll probably say no, heres the thing that i don't understand, after talking with them, when i go to walk away i hear them say such hurtful things, like hes fake, hes to nice for me, I really like that guy but i wouldn't date him, What i really don't understand is im just being myself. I feel like i have to be someone else to just get a date, it seams hopeless. If they think there sparing a mans feelings by not giving him a chance there not because it hurts worse to be treated like that then it does to have them and lose them. It hurts so much to not have someone give me a chance because im sweet