Will my Long Distant relationship work?

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I'm 27, Asian, having a long distant relationship with an American. We have never met each other but have been in love for over 1 year. Because of our jobs, we are unable to find chances to meet each other. 

My parents and friends tell me that is unrealistic, I cannot spend my whole life waiting for someone that I have never met and has no intention to go visit me.

However, I feel like this is my true love. We aren't yet to visit each other, not "Never". 

I'm worried and upset all the time. Sometimes seeing people hands in hands, my heart hurts a lot

I need some advice

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well i wouldn't do that to your self it won't do any good just ask her if she gets vacation and you take meet  each other half way it would seem like the yours at the same time and make a absolute promise to meet half way

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Dont listen to them. Your long distance relationship could definately work out! By getting to know her online, you got to understand her on an emotional an  intellectual basis and you two are closer because of it. OR it won't work out and you are completely wasting your time and stress capacity when you still are in your 20s over some girl who never cared about you and could be cheating on you. In short, judge it for yourself but with extreme caution.  You havent met this person in real life, you haven't got the opportunity to observe her. You only know what she has chosen to present to you and it could be real or it could be a mask. Try to figure out how she acts with her other friends specifically of the opposite gender, what does she like do to in her spare time also reveals a lot about a person, does she like to club or hang out with a few group of friends during the day. 

I have seen a good deal of long distance relationships, and the ones that work out do not depend on how much the two love each other, it depends on their integrity as a person and just how ready they are to commit. Yes she could love you, but love I hate to say it sometimes isn't enough

Will my Long Distant relationship work?

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