My husband and I have been fighting for a few months. It was a lot of ups and downs/good days and bad days. He told me he was over stressed with work and school and that I never helped him around the house. I promised I would change and he said that I've said it before. He said he didn't believe me. He sank into depression and I sank with him. I was trying to push him go talk and just made everything worse. I became clingy and dependent, trying to show him that I really loved him, and it just made him more distant. He said he needed time. This last month was the worst. I couldn't focus on anytning but him. Finally it got so bad that we were both at our breaking point. I asked if he wanted a divorce and he said he didn't know what he wanted. He said he can't think straight. I asked him to go stay with our friends until he figured it out. He has been gone 2 weeks now. I'm miserable without him. The night he left, our friends sat him down and told him that if he wanted to leave me, he needed to do it then while I was already hurt, and not wait until I started to recover. He didnt. I have frequent panic attacks and anxiety that is really affecting everything. He told my friend that he is worried about me, and he misses the woman he fell in love with. We haven't talked since he left except last night. I text him about our taxes and he responded. It was casual, but not negative. He initiated some conversation. Will he come back? He only took clothes. He is staying with our friends rent free. I gave him money for the car insurance and payment and he has the car. I've also been taking care of the house, bills, and our dogs. I'm scared, and it's a lot to handle. He usually dealt with everything and I completely see now how stressful it was. We have been together 10 years and had a very loving relationship.