I'm sure this has been asked before but here is my question. I have been involved a man online and through phone calls, text for 5 years on and off. We live in different states but managed to be friends and found we were interested in each other. 2 years ago we started talking everyday and we fell in love, but we both had issues and we had a falling out. I've gained a ton of weight these past two years and when we started talking again I didn't mention it. Well now we want to meet in person, and I haven't told him about my change in weight. He said he loves me and nothing can change that but am I dumb to believe that? I am 31 and he is 39. So this isn't a young kid infatuation thing. I love this man but I'm afraid everything will change when he seesi have gotten very fat. What should I do? He is coming to visit and I don't know what I should do.