I met this guy about two years ago--we vibed really well but when I approached him about wanting to date--he said no. So stopped talking for a while after that---but our friendship picked back up earlier this year when I started my own business--and he has taken great interest in giving me guidance. Above that he and I can talk on the phone for 2-3 hours at a time--we have all the makings of what would seemingly be a good relationship--but still he makes no moves. He has told me I am attractive--I dont know what else to do--I have noticed that when I dont have contact with him--he gets over eager to connect...I often wonder if I am too pushy and maybe I just need to lay low...be his friend...and let him be the MAN and ask me out....HELP
Why would a guy want to meet my parents and he says he doesnt want to date me?
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- 3+ months ago by Datelessi...
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Added 3+ months ago:
I think I got myself off track with the extra information....LOL. I bring the question about meeting my parents because he said he wants to meet them--which I find odd--the ONLY time I would want to meet anyone's parents is if I am dating them.
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Well i would think thats odd to there must be a reason for that sounds like hes looking for a reason to date you but at the same time he isn't willing to put himself on the line. So i would be real careful about this kinda guy kinda signals wrong reasons to me it also sounds like he may want to be a piece of the final result. Be very careful not enough reasons that are lagit to meet your parents that doesn't happen unless your dating.
Sorry to say it but this is not normal. This guy is odd very odd and a just a little bit creepy. I have to ask, is he gay? You asked him on a date two years ago - I wouldn't call that pushy.
Be wary of this one. How much do you know about him because if most of your time spent getting to know him has been over the phone, then you know practically nothing at all. If you are waiting for him to ask you out, don't hold your breath will you. He has had 2 years to pluck up the courage.
And now, oddly, he wants to meet your parents? Why? What is his motive? it's just weird.
Sorry but he sounds like a lunatic in the making. Don't let him meet the parents and don't let him near your home or your business and be very select about any information you choose to share with him. I would gradually stop contact with him.
