Why think about another guy when your in love with the guy you have?

Some people are confused with who they love, as both people can seem appealing to them. However they could also be mixing up love with infatuation, feeling a brief attraction to someone without actually thinking of a long term relationship. Some people could also be “bored” of a routine or want attention from someone while they like another, which would be two reasons people frown upon liking one person but thinking of another. While some people can’t help it, oddly enough, others wish to create problems or drama for themselves, test boundaries, or think of different possibilities before they love someone wholeheartedly. This doesn’t always have to be from bad intent, although sometimes when people do this they could think of another persons money, looks, possessions, people they are associated with, and so on that make them more appealing or as appealing compared to the person they seem to love.