Why people always stop looking for love and let it find you?

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I have been looking a girlfriend as I never had one before. And when I was looking for it, I could not find it and people told me to stop looking. And they say If I keep on looking for it I will never find it. And there said it will only happen unexpectedly. So three years ago at the age of 24 I stopped looking for a girlfriend and got on with enjoying my life and today at age 27 it has still not happened and when I said looking or not looking either way does not happen, people say just enjoy my life and say if it meant to happen, it will. Love has still not found me at all and If i end up being single all my life, I will be so angry because life without relationship for me is so unfair. I be so angry if I end up being single for the whole of my life.


     
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I think maybe you feel as though you have stopped looking when intact you are still looking. Do you pray at all? i am 16, i know thats young to want to fall in love but i think i will. I am not looking.. but i do think when you don't look you do find it, i am positive. Just hang in there. Ask another question if you want.. hope this has helped a little x

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Well, if it gives you any hope, it took me until age 35 for true love to find me. You don't have to 'go hunting', but you can increase your chances by being social and active in your community. Keep enjoying life, and keep your attitude positive!

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well that saying is not applicable for all people sometimes you need to do some action if you really want why not try blind dates or speed datings

Why people always stop looking for love and let it find you?

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