I have been looking a girlfriend as I never had one before. And when I was looking for it, I could not find it and people told me to stop looking. And they say If I keep on looking for it I will never find it. And there said it will only happen unexpectedly. So three years ago at the age of 24 I stopped looking for a girlfriend and got on with enjoying my life and today at age 28 it has still not happened and when I said looking or not looking either way does not happen, people say just enjoy my life and say if it meant to find me, it will. Love has still not found me at all and If i end up being single all my life, I will be such an angry man because life without relationship for me is so unfair. I be so angry if I end up being single for the whole of my life.
Why people always say stop looking for love and let it find you?
- Posted:
- 3+ months ago by rolland
- Topics:
- people, love, girlfriend, always
Answers (3)
have you considered dating sites for locals?
get out and compliment the ladies be extra charming
(its what their looking for)
a guy who is nice and polite
some just go for looks
others are personality and how well you two go together
trust, care, respect, honesty and love is what everybody wants
besides the ones who have no heart in any of this
try a dating site
and be yourself
Hi, Rolland. It might be that your standards are to high. I think that you have been looking for the perfect girl. If that is the reason, then try to take some things you want in the girl you are looking for off your list. Start by the long hair she should have. I'm not saying that you should settle for less. Nobody's perfect. You say LOVE HAS NOT FOUND YOU. I do not believe people just fall in love. Love grows with time. Start by looking for a girlfriend and not for love. I was wondering why you call a girlfriend a “it”. You are 28 and never had a “girlfriend”. I think you never made it your first priority to GET one. I do believe you looked but, I also believe that, that is were it stops. LOOKED AND WAITED. It could also be that you never really wanted “IT” I'm just saying. DO NOT SAY I'M GOING TO LOOK FOR A GIRL. TELL YOURSELF, I'M GONNE GET ME A GIRL. Then you'll find one (you might just get two, you never know) because, waiting ain't working. Don't be afraid to flirt