So this girl i've been talking to (read my last 2 questions if ya want full details) anyway.... she?has been somewhat short while texting me recently except saturday night.. i met her family and it went great, she told me that even though we werent committed she still wasnt going to try and find someone else and see where we could go with what we have, parted ways with a nice kiss (as usual) but heres the thing ever since saturday shes been short with texting me..... and today we had plans to go to the movies, called her yesterday asked if we were still on, shes like crap, yeah we will still go but she had a drs appointment so she had to go. texted me last night that she had a follow up appointment and i told her its fine ill just stay at college till 4 so we can hangout for a little bit,(leave at 12:15 if we dont hangout) she said no dont do that gotta leave at 1:45 anyway but said i will come see you when im done (we live like 45 mins away) so i said wouldnt you rather have me meet you half way? she never texted back. texted her this morning said i was gunna skip my first class and asked if she wanted to skip with me... no text back, told her id went to class and id meet her where we usually meet after class, she responds ok, i get out of class text her tell her im there, she responds im making up a test skipping gym class, this was at like 11 i was like ok just hmu when your done, thats the last text i sent her left at 12:15 and havent heard from her since. worst part is my friend called me at 3 and said that he just saw her a school. wtf right? she said she needed to leave at 145 for her appointment so she could get there on time (said it started at 330) but shes still at college at 3...now it just feels like she avoided me all day?? why would she do this if she truly does like me??
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Most likely short texting because she is in some kind of hurry. Most likely with someone else and nervous of being caught and doesn't want to give it away so she is providing you with little detail. Sometimes you can tell people are lying by what they say and she is tryin to avoid that. Also if she doesnt want the other person to know about you then she would probably be "sneak texting" you and being quick about it. I could be wrong though. Doesnt mean shes not in love with you. Possibly confused. This is very possible. Maybe just trying to make sure there is nothing better out there before she gets too serious with anyone
(sorry didnt read entire story. just skimmed through and speaking from experience of what i think she is doing.)