I'm so sad when she ignores me for no reason. I told her that I miss her, that I'm very sad and lonely because of ignore, but she doesn't care about me anymore. She told me that I'm her best friend and we used to talk everyday for hours, in the past 2,5 years. She told me that I'm the only one who understands her, and she thanked me for been her friend. She was really nice, fer, good person, good friend, she was there always for me. But now she have some private problems and ignoring me. I'm so sad and depressed. Yesterday i texted her, that I'm very disappointed of her and she makes me the saddest man in the world. And again nothing, but ignore. We live in different cities and we can't hang out in real live...What do you think guys? I'm in love or just obsessed with this girl? I think I can't be in love because I don't know her well in real. I can't touch her, I can't feel her...How the hell I can be this much obsessed with her? I'm so sad...Sorry for my English, I hope you understand me. Please help me.
Answers (1)
I have the exact same problem with a friend of mine. I think maybe they just need a little space. They could be going through something that we don't know about. Instead of seeking to talk to her for your personal interest, try to figure out if she is ok.. How is she doing? That kind of stuff will get her to respond.. And don't worry about love, if u loved her u wouldn't have to question it... It would just be love
Well, the problem is although i ask how is she, or what she doing, or how is her niece (she is a baby and my friend loved her so much) she doesn't respond......she just doesn't respond for anything. For that reason Im so sad.
But i just realized i shouldn't feel sad and depression for other people.
She have some private problem right now, but when she started to ignored me, she doesn't have any problem. For that i felt sad, lonely and angry...Because she ignored me for no reason.
I'll text her right now that i hope she will be fine, and i'll just leave her alone.
I must stay strong no matter of what.
I hope this is just obsession and im not in love with her :)
Thanks you for the answer :)