This platonic (no sex) ladyfriend of mine recently rekindled after 7 months after I sent her a birthday card. She called me a few days later and we spoke from 8:30 pm till 12:15 am. We reminisced about good times, old inside jokes, she said we should travel together see movies every now and then and other more profound things... it was as if time had stopped. Since then we spoke on the phone again (not for as long) and met and had a good time (as friends).
However, I am unsure as to what she expects of me, I feel at the very least that she sees me as a friend but sometimes I wonder.... She tells me things like: she feels that we go well together, she feels she can be herself with me. That we have chemistry after I ended one of her sentences (I believe she means the friend kind not the sexual kind, but was never specific). After I told her we should talk over wine, she said that after one glass she cannot stop but that I am like her wine, she feels she can relax her inhibitions with me, that we share this ''truth'' as she says, we can be real when together (is she honest or manipulative I don't know for sure). Together we laugh often, very often as we did while working together, however we did have our frictions... Big time!
She ended an email one day with a quote "Love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation". - Kahlil Gibran No idea as to it's meaning, if she chose it at random I have no idea and of what it means and topped it with "je t'aime" I love you in French (meant as a friend or more... don't know. I don't know if she was sincere either. It is all sweet, but I don't feel that there is any flirting, however I don't have a good flirting radar.
We saw each other, for the first time in months a few weeks ago and had a blast. However, at our second outing (not a date just movies) we partly laughed, she got angry when I couldn't answer a philosophical question about the last words of some kid before dying, she said that I was only answering to satisfy her (she was like this sometimes while we were coworkers), even-though I was interested and nodded my head in interest and she took it as lack there of, and started getting impatient with me as well as over other things, even my saying "what" a few times during the movie in reaction to what was happening on screen. I got upset and then she apologized often. We said good night, hugged twice. OK, she came even-though she had a headache and stomach ache. But still. I wonder if we will see each other again.
Give me your take, best guess or gut feeling.
PS: by the way, I realize you cannot read her mind, just your opinion. Grown up answers please
