... years now and I have noticed some weird behaviour. At first it looked like he was flirting with me he would look at me from a distance and stare at me, he looks at me and smiles a lot (that could be more of a friendly thing) Once I was getting dressed putting my shoes and jacket on after the consultation and when I looked up he was sitting in the chair with his chin in his hand staring at me getting dressed, when he realised I noticed he got up and walked on to the other side of the room. I also found out he asks other doctors about me and gets them to ask me questions medical and non medical question like what do I do, do I work, where do I work, what do I like, where did I meet my friends any thing he can find out. Oh and the mocking I was biting my lip in the waiting room, he did the same thing when I went into his cconsultation room, I have never seen him do this otherwise, when I talk on the phone outside his office he will talk on his phone when im in the consultation room. Once I was sick so my brother called and ambulance, I went to see my GP and told him what happened and gave him a letter from the hospital, I know this GP knows the specialist so he must of told him about this, the next time I went to see the specialist he had an ambulance outside his office the receptionist then goes to another patient, oh sorry I made a mistake I called an ambulance instead of a taxi for you. The list goes on, what’s with this doctor? He really is starting to freak me out
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It's possible that he is just super friendly lol, but more realistically he's probably going to start stalking you from those signs. However, you can't charge him with anything because he hasn't done anything wrong. If it's possible for you to get a new specialist do so, if not discuss with him how you're perceiving these signs. And if he's just being friendly then good, if not... well I'm pretty sure that's a whole different story, and you're going to need help from people who can witness this thing first hand, as we can't answer a question from only your point of view, we need other perspectives as well. Your best bet is to just talk with him, and if you can't do that try getting another specialist. P.s Maybe he's just lonely haha xD