I told this guy that I liked him and now he ignore me, I think he hates me cause when I try to talk to him he says I don't know and walks away almost every time like the other day me and my friends were playing basketball with him an his friends in gym and he acted like I wasn't even there everyone that knows him says that he's not like that but to me he is and no one believes me why does he do that and why does he hate me??!
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Trust me, I know where you're coming from. This happens to me to. Right now he may be trying to figure things out, you never know what's going on in someone's head. maybe the best thing you can do is go up to him in a secluded area, try talking to him when no one is around and explain how you feel. Or talk to his guy friends, see if they can help figure some things out.
If you don't mind me asking how did it work out for you in the end?
What's happening to you, exactly happened to me. I thought he hated me, and never wanted anything to do with me again, etc . And I know it's hard, but you need to kind of push for an answer. I had to go up to him and set things straight, and once I did that, I found out why it seemed he was ignoring me and stuff. And we talked about all that. Now, he ended up not liking me the same way I liked him, but we're still good friends now. So I would go up to him. It's scary, and nerve racking, but in the end it's worth it so you can finnally get your answer.
How can I find the courage to go up and talk to him every time I try its the same old hesitation and I can never really get him alone. If I try to go up and talk to him an he ignored me again could I just ask him why he ignores me and doesn't wanna talk to me or tell him that he coulda just told me he didn't want to talk to me and see what he says back? And thanks so much for ur help so far in soo confused this is the first time I've ever told the guy that I like him
A little late response, but yes. Just straight up ask him. You need to be forward or you'll never understand/know why he's doing this and what is going on in his mind
IK I'm also responding late but it's good advice for if this ever happen with another guy cause he switched schools and I never got my answer from him:/
he probably wasn't ready for you to tell him that and now sense you he is running from it either that or he just wanted to be friends or just not interested at all you just have to keep on believeing mabe he come through he might just not know how to handle the information
I went through the same problem, ill tell u the story. So I basically wrote him a note saying "your cute" and then after he said "sorry I don't like you back". So I basically got rejected. At school I have a cousin who us a year elder than me and is in his class he is also a year elder than me. Anyways she always used to say that he says tell ur cousin to stop looking at me and I hate her and stuff like that. But now, we follow each other on social media, well that only happen 4 tines but still yay! So my advice is to give it time I meen I only new his name and I only new him since September 6 and I told him on September 30. So yeah I've waited like 5 month or something like that. My advice: give him time, if you have the guys go up to him and talk to him privately/ if u don't have the guts text him. At first messaging might be awkward, and he might ask why do u like me that's what he asked me and I said I don't anymore, and j think that made it less awkward! And my cousin and friend who are in his class say that he doesn't say that he hates me and that maybe he started to like me❤I hope that this was helpful! Instagram: @xo_ruqayya snapchat: @ruqayya06 musical.ly: @ruqayya06. If u need anything ill be there either contact me on here or on my social media! Hope that thus was helpful! Oh btw if u do what I did he might start looking and staring at u sometimes man nature! He always stares at my ass. Like yes! Lol! Bye
The problem is he's only in my gym class well that and he has A lunch with me so I can never really get him alone. And it's been about a month1/2 since I told him I liked him but its only been the last 2-3 weeks that he seems like he hates me and I don't no why, if I talked to his friends ik it'll get back to him and he'll probably hate me even more