I just got a boyfriend and we only met once and he has had a huge crush on me since we met and we were Internet friends ute,l two days ago then he was my boyfriend....he is super sweet and has an amazing personality and I wouldn't go for hi, if he wasn't so sweet...but I feel weird thinking about him being my boyfriend and I'm supposed to call him today but even thinking about his voice makes me feel weird it gives me this weird butterfly feeling in my chest or stomach. And thinking that I should talk to him feels really weird. Help?
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it might be because you never experience those type of feelings and he is probably feeling the same theses are feelings of butterflys when you know that this person makes you happy and they explode when your together and while your with this person things seem like you never want to let theses go cause they are made up of being crazy and you feel theses when your in the presence of this boyfriend
Aww! Those 'weird' feelings you described aren't weird at all. It means your reacting to how happy your bf makes you. Sure talking to him may be weird for awhile. After all you just established your relationship. But you'll get used to it and those butterflies won't feel so weird.
So no need to fear! It's okay you feel this way. :)
Haha. Your question is super sweet too. Well, you misunderstood the "weired". You're too excited and nervous when he talks,looks at you, walks by you,stand by you etc. We don't get excited like that even if aren't like him back.
Yes, you like him and you do love him! :) you'll get used to it in few days, don't worry. You like him and that's why butterflies are fluttering in your stomach. Haha. You're sweet too. <3
The butterfly feeling, and weird feelings are from having a crush.
I felt this way with my boyfriend when we first started talking(we met online as well)
I still feel kind of weird calling him my boyfriend, but I love it.
I love saying he's mine, and it's a weird feeling.
I hope everything works out.
I know things can feel weird or awkward a lot, but if you let him know he should be very understanding.
I have never had a boyfriend before & I do not know how it feels to have a guy like me for me, ...I'm sort of used to negative comments from them(guys) like: "She is ugly", "Uggg, I don't like her", ect.
But, all together & in conclusion I would feel the same way that you feel while having a sweet boyfriend & starting new too. I tend to get very shy & frozen if a guy talks to me or if I have a interest in a guy & he talks to me I feel totally out of my self & this is perfectly normal. Stay with him, take deep breaths when you see your good luck charm, & don't trade a diamond in for a rock; Don't let go of something that loves you for you & is crazy about you, for something that only likes your features & is 99% of a crook.
You probably feel strange because you are new to having a boyfriend, but clearly are very bright to know that he is a good person. When my boyfriend really became mine, I didn't really know what to think of it. It's kind of strange at first, but soon you will adjust. I not really know why the though of talking to him makes you feel weird though. All you have to do is believe that he is the one, and treat each other right. Butterflies in your stomach are totally normal, just be confident and trust yourself.
Wishing you the best of luck, Anniestells
You’re just going through the motions. It’s normal to have those butterfly feelings in your stomach. It can be hard trying to start a conversation with a guy whom you just met. I had that exact same feeling when my best friend Nicolas started having feelings for me. Just be cool, don’t be weird and have fun. Don’t say anything that you’ll regret saying later! Good luck and Meus parabéns!