When I'm by myself I don't have that issue but any time I', with a live person I can't manage to keep an erection for more than a minute or two, sometimes I can't even get it up. I know that it's not a problem with finding them attractive, I do, I just don't understand. Now, I will say that I don't have much experience in bed while not alone, I've only been with 2 people and in neither situation was I able to stay up or finish. I also know that I have an issue with staying up wearing a condom, that I can't do even by myself, I tested it. I do have a very negative view of myself, but I know lots of people like that who don't have that issue. Any ideas?
