I want to purchase a car from a dealer, but they keep insisting on going to a credit union. I got denied and offered a lesser loan then what I originally need. I told the dealer and they told me to try a different credit union. At this point I don't know if i should give up, or find an alternative. It would be my first car, used, i just really fell in love and i have the money to put a down payment. So stressing... opinions?