Well i been going out with this girl on and off for over 9 months. It has alot of up and down in our relationship due to that are from differnent worldsand where to much the same. It always a figth for control and im tried of it, yet she is the first girl i can say i love with all heart. when i give her the control she wants she push me away but when im not there she doesnt stop cry on the phone, she leaves me hunderds of voicemails cry and such, text message, letter at my door etc. i just dont know what to do anymore ive tried everything. any advice?