It seems every American I deal with online is just so abrasive and mean, and they don't care if they offend you, telling you to "take a joke", "it was funny".
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It's religious. The whole country is possessed by a spirit of stupid. The same is true of most of the world. We have this prophecy we call Armageddon. The USA is prominently absent from the story. The country must collapse and become helpless before then. You are seeing prophecy fulfilled as you watch.