I'm 15 years old and for most of my life I've never felt attracted to anyone. I can look at someone and find them attractive, but I don't feel the need to pursue that individual. The thought of dating someone or getting married leaves me feeling depressed. Why am I like this?
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You're still young so that could be a reason. If you haven't gone through puberty then that is definitely a reason why you're not attracted to anyone. You see your friends (same age as you) that have girlfriends and you become depressed realizing your the only one who doesn't have one.
Give it some time, your too young to be thinking about getting married. Love doesn't come instantly, you have to wait for the right person to come by, that fits into your life.
I hope that made sense.
That could also be a reason, but from a neurological point of view it would be too hard to understand.
My advice is, go meet guys, make friends and you will definitely find someone. The conscious mind is a very complicated ubiquitous presence. Most humans that have fully developed brains are only accessing 20% of their consciousness. The only way to acquire a pure conscious mind is through meditation. I know it sounds ridiculous, but it is the only way. As I've said you're too young to be thinking about your future in such depth.
I forgot to mention that I'm a female and the one person I ever felt attracted to was another girl. I don't know if this makes a difference or not?