Let's say two people live together. We'll refer to them as person A and person B.
Person A is hard-headed, ignorant, and tends to get into much trouble
Person B is caring and highly overprotective.
Person B constantly saves Person A from trouble and harm which begins to get annoying overtime.
One day Person B sees Person A fighting someone and decides not to intervene. Person B would like Person A to sort their problems out on their own.
Later on, Person B doesn't see Person A for a week and when Person A comes back, they say they were kidnapped and tortured.
Who was in the wrong?
Person A for getting into trouble or Person B for not intervening and saving Person A from fighting.