My boyfriend and I are both in our early 20's. He is 22, and I am 21. Anyway, we are currently staying with his parents until we find a place of our own. Just recently, I was out at the gym working out, and his mom said that his brother said that he saw me snooping around the house at night. I was not. I was actually in the room with my boyfriend all night. Well, his parents said that they want me gone as soon as possible. I am okay with that. I never felt comfortable in this house anyway. His mom always yells and complains about everything several times a day. I think she has bipolar or anger issues or something. But, his mom also said that if I am spending money at the gym, we have enough money to move out. Also, my boyfriend got into a car crash a couple weeks ago, so they are having him give them all his work money until he buys a car. Well, this question is mostly about my boyfriend. I get to the house, and the his family is eating dinner. I go to the room, and I tell him I do not want to eat dinner because I feel awkward. I told him just to say I am not hungry. He kept telling me over and over again to apologize to his mom and tell her that I am quitting the gym, and just not go anymore for a couple weeks until I move out. He also told me that I need to go out there now and eat and apologize for going to the gym. Seriously. I said no, I do not want to because I feel awkward. He keeps insisting. Then, he starts trying to pull me out of the room to go out there and eat. I finally go and say sorry because my stomach was hurting. I lied about my stomach. Well, his mom walks off and to her room when I come out there. She was at the table complaining about something else. Well, I just let her walk off, and do not apologize. I feel like I have nothing to apologize about. I plan on leaving as soon as possible anyway. It has been my plan for awhile, I just need to find a place. It is crazy here. Well, now my boyfriend is ignoring me because I did not apologize, and say I am leaving the gym, or even say I will be out soon. Does this sound like a crazy situation to you? Was my boyfriend wrong for trying to get me to go out there and apologize?
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yes he was. you have done nothing wrong. you dont need to save all your money for the house. its your money not theres. they need to back off. i think you should move in with your parents. i think you need to sit the hole family down and explain the situation. its not your fault you want to be fit and they shouldnt be taking his money either. the're not working for it. thats about the time i'd tell my parents to piss off.