I have two children with my ex. We were together for 10 years. We had our problems and I left. I'm now with my fiance, I just found out I'm pregnant by him. My ex wants me back with him and together we would have all the money and try again. I still have feelings for my ex. I'm not really happy that im pregnant. And before it starts growing inside me I'm thinking if I should get an abortion and give my two kids a better life along with myself.
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I would honestly sit down and think long and hard about this one. Yes you have a past and history and two kids with your ex but you guys separated for a reason. You should not get back with him just because you will "have all the money and a better life". Think of your kids. You have a man who obviously loves you because he proposed to you and you obviously care for him because you said yes. I can only assume that he takes care of your kids that you have with another man so he is loving and accepting. I'm sure he would be thrilled to find out that you are pregnant with his baby. You guys should be able to be happy. Money doesn't matter. Just because your ex is your kids father doesn't mean he has to be their dad and it doesn't mean you have to be with him. If it didn't work out before what makes you think it'll work out now? Think of your children. Give them a loving stable living environment with a man that will treat them like his own. Try to work your engagement out and do not slip into temptation. You have a good man, don't mess that up. Start a whole loving family instead of having this child being with your ex and then ending up as a single mom with three kids.. Stay strong. Good luck.