Which is better xbox1 or ps4 confused :(?

Neither, buy a PC

I agree that if you have the money and/or the space you should buy a PC (powerfull graphic card needed there and to enable that you will need quite expensive config). If you still want a console, then PS4 is marginally better in terms of image quality, it is slimer, has a more ergonomic controller (though depends on taste). I think everything comes down to the games you want to play - the price for the 2 versions, the proprietary games and the prive of the sets. But in terms of what is better in terms of performance they are more or less the same