I think I just lost the love of my life, I don't think I could live without him... I don't want anyone but him.. Forever.. I'll never let go..
When you fall in love for the very first time, can you find a love like your first?
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- 3+ months ago by Borndepre...
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- life, fall, first, love, lost, forever, time, first time
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you know when you fall in love for the first time its different then other loves you will have in your life no two loves are the same you love differently then you do with other loves some look to have the same feelings the same deepness the whole feelings that you can't feel the same because its totally different then what you would find the second time around because your looking for the same deepness as you had the first time sometimes the second doesn't work because your looking for the same as the first you can come close
I personally have not... I'm only 20 but I dated a girl back in middle school for almost three years, broke up, dated other girls that never filled her spot fully, the break up made me desperate for the feeling she once provided to me before, two years later I'm back with her... My personal experience the first love is the one for me as of right now.. Again that just me... He needs to love you back for him to be the one... If it's clear he's moved on then you should too... Can't force something that's not meant to be.. Just my two cents...
Maybe you did maybe you didn't. The ONLY way you'll ever know is if you start dating and fall in love with someone better.
First loves always feel more magical more important better etc simply because they are first and your emotions are brand new some times overwhelmingly strong or seems so because you've never experienced it before.
You can get over it; when you say you can't you are creating your own road block and preventing it yourself. It's like a self-fulfilling prophecy it has nothing to do with the romance.
Can't live without him, will never find anyone like him, best thing to ever happen to me, can't get along without him are all incredibly immature drama queen statements and untrue. Nobody should be that much of a needy, desperate clinger.
Let's just say if things were meant to happen you'd be together. Take a month have your pity party, wallow in despair and cry until your face is so swollen you look like a grapefruit. Then its time to pull yourself back together and move on with your life.
Reconnect with friends, get a new hairstyle, get active start walking or going to the gym and let your friends introduce you to guys. Stay busy even if its tearing your closet apart and hang everything by colors. The more active you are the less time your brain has to whine and carry on.
You aren't going through anything that at least half the other women in the world haven't gone through and we all survived.
Good luck and your 30 days starts now
You don't want to find that.
When you first fall in love you are usually a giddy, naive, immature teen with virtually no life experience. You have no basis for making a life time choice. A very small percentage marry and stick with it and the key words are very small.
The choice you make is based on juvenile likes and dislikes and the thrill of believing some one thinks you are the greatest thing since sliced bread. That usually isn't the truth. It's just someone else also excited or some one wanting to get in your pants or some one wanting to feel wanted.
You want a relationship based on mature connections and likes and dislikes, with someone you don't fight with.