I made the worse choices any girl could make in her past and I hate what I did. I was constantly with older guys, and I was doing things I should've done at my age. I tried forgetting the past and I'm changed. I'm older and I stopped my self from being in that situation, but now I met the love of my life and I didn't tell him everything because I was scared what he would think, but he constantly told me If I told him it wouldn't matter what it was aslong as I'm honest, but I made the mistake and didn't tell him the truth because I've changed and I didn't want that to ruin this perfect relationahip. I ended up telling him everything and now I feel like he is going to leave me, we just got engaged. :( How do I prove to him that the past is the past and I regret everything, I only want him.
When I was younger I made horrible choices that are effecting my life now, I need help?
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- 3+ months ago by Borndepre...
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- life, girl, past, guys, relationships
Responses (5)
idk if this is goin to help or not but I do hope it really does, even if its only a little :3
umm just try to convince hime that man makes mistakes and to err is human
so its only natural for someone to do stuff
tell him that you then realized your vital mistakes and then reverted to the right path
you guys should sit back and discuss and solve the problems with kindness, rather than violence or stuff
tell him that you really have changed your personality
people shouldn't judge others by their reputations, but by their personalities.
and sometimes, you should make sacrifices for the greatee good.
but no matter what, always believe in yourself.
and yeah, have faitg in God, Allah.
In shaa Allah all your problems will be solved.
and never give up! :D
actually I'm a teen of 17 years from Bangladesh. I think these are retarded but I hope its worth a try
hope everything gets normal again :D
I think would sit down with him and ask him why he asked you to marry him. Ask what it is that he likes about you. Explain that you were afraid to tell him, and, with good reason, cuz, "See how it made you react?" But, because you love him, and are an honest person, you did not want to start your married life continuing to not reveal the whole truth. After he tells you why he loves you and wants to be with you, explain that you are still that same person. If he walks away after that, consider yourself lucky that you didn't marry him. Because you deserve to be with someone that'll accept you unconditionally and will love you no matter what!!!!! It'll hurt now. But, in the long run, you will have saved yourself from, possibly, way worse!!
Honey, I do hope you have forgiven yourself for your past. EVERYONE has a past, some good...some bad...some worse than others. The important thing is that YOU have forgiven yourself and know that you are worthy of his love. I garuntee he has skeletons in his closet as well. As we get older we all do, and I know because I have been through some pretty awful things myself. Some done to me and some I did to myself.
Regardless, I agree with the fact that he asks you to marry him because he fell in love with you. Everyone deserves a 2nd chance and then some. Love yourself, be good to yourself and others. You dont need to prove anything to him. He already knows you. :)
you're welcome :3