Im always being blamed and taking the fall for everyone at work making me the scapegoat. I'm always ignored or felt forgotten about by friends and family and when I try to talk to them they always seem to get angry with me. My boyfriend never wants to talk about work and always shuts me out and says whenever I speak or want to talk its drama. With all that said I feel like I'm being cornered and I have no one to talk too.ever.period. So I just keep to myself and I don't know what to do or say or act anymore if I can't be me? Help I feel like I'm on the losing end of every aspect in my life.
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Thanks for sharing all that, I won't try to pretend I understand exactly what your going through, cause honestly? I don't. But I would like to help you to the best of my abilities. I encourage you to share what is going on, on here, like what you've done. I promise you, there has got to be at least 1 person in this whole world that is willing to listen to your every comment, every opinion, and every word. You just have to find them.
"If you can't stop them, join them"
I know this sounds pretty crappy and useless, but try and do the gist of that quote. Show them how much you're effecting them by being... well, not yourself. (ex. If you're often talkative, try being quite and answer with as few words are possible, a silent way to show that you're either feeling sad, or something else is going on) Family members and friends that know you well should notice that something isn't right. Use that chance to tell them how you feel.
I hope this helps, and I wish you the best of luck!
Thanks for reading, I'll try it out