I was on a basketball team but I got kicked off because I posted something bad on the internet about the coach( which I know was wrong ) but I was just as good as good as two of the players he played constantly and didn’t play me none so I want to know a verse saying give me a chance
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You had a chance and you blew it. In essence you bad mouthed your boss. Doesn't matter if it's a sport or a career you don't bad mouth the boss.
You have a gripe you make an appt and go talk to the boss. What can I do to get played, how can I improve my game to be more valuable to the team, what would you like to see me change?
You don't pull a passive-aggressive immature stunt by talking down the coach on the internet.
I don't think you fully comprehend the seriousness of your mistake. Yeah I know it's wrong BUT... You gloss over it and jealously complain. If your skill on the court is the same as the other players then I'm going to guess it's your attitude that is worse and unless you fix that you're going to watch future games from the stands.
Saying I'm sorry does not earn a person an automatic forgiving. An apology can be accepted or declined. If you weren't being played very likely the attitude you are displaying now was also visible then.
Sincere apology stems from the heart,the victim could feel if you genuine with your apology or not. Showing that you are sincerely sorry may win back his trust. You have to do all that's in your power to win over that person trust again. Let's look at a scripture that lead you back to that persons heart:
1) Matrhew 6:14, "For if you forgive men their trespasses, your Heavenly Father will also forgive you. Whereas if you do not forgive men their trespasses, neither will your,Farher forgive your trespasses." You could reason with him, that God expects us to forgive, it does not matter the magnitude of the crime, for no crime is to big for God himself to forgive us .There is not one single person that does not make a mistake and needs forgiveness. You could reason with him in a very mild and humble way and ask him if he never made a mistake or done something he regrets. If you think it is difficult to reason with him, why not try writing him an apologetic letter begging his forgiveness and quoting Matthew 6:14 to him. Anyone hearing that scripture with an open mind will realize no one is perfect and even him makes mistakes. In this way he may be more inclined to forgive your error. Do remember though, you are not asking his forgiveness just to get favors from him, because that will not be true repentance. Like I said true repentance stems from the heart and can be felt by the victim. Hope this info helps you to get back in a good standing with your coach .
Gossip is defined as idle personal talk; that is, idle talk, especially about the affairs of others. It is light chat or talk; newsmongering. It may become scandal when it turns into groundless rumor or general talk that is damaging to the reputation of another. Scandal is usually more or less malicious, it being said out of ill will with a desire to hurt the one spoken about. Proverb 20:19. Since you slandered the person on the internet your apology should be done on the internet. You should also go in person yourself and sincerely apologize, by explaining the reason for your behavior. Do not expect him to forgive you quickly. When you hurt someone in this way it burns deep within and the pain takes time to heal. If you are still on the team, try to be the best basketball player you can be. You may soften his heart.
You are the one who will benefit from the scriptures. Proverb 13;13.
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