He blames you for all his mistakes, takes no responsibility, gives you no support. Also you don't have any family around and he alienated all your friends from you. Any suggestions on what would you do. How would you move on and deal with such disappointment? Would you keep his child to remind you of your abuser or would you kill your own baby(although abortion is technically legal)? All ideas and opinions are welcome.
What would you do if you were pregnant and married to an abusive, violent and self centered man?
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- 3+ months ago by Abuseiswr...
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- man, family, violent, support, pregnant, mistake, responsibility, self, married
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Responses (1)
I see two discrete parts of the problem here: 1) first you are married to a man who you see as abusive and violent 2) You are pregnant
The fact that you are pregnant is not relevant for the solution to point 1) above: if he is violent and abusive you should just leave him (you probably should have done that before)
Considering the answer to 1) then you have two options: you keep the baby and raise as a single mother or you make an abortion. And the decision on whether you keep the baby or not is entirely down to you, who the father is should not be relevant, on how determined you are to have a baby - do you really want to be a mother? do you feel yourself ready to take care of him only by yourself? If yes, surely you will love your kid irrespective of who the father is as virtually all women do