I'm 20 years old and I been with my boyfriend for 2years.before we even date my boyfriend said he wanted to meet my dad.I said no because my dad is too strict.I go through stress at home because of my dad.he always yelling at me for no reason.I can't go to the store without my dad going crazy.If i go out for more than 2 hours he went out to look for me like I'm a baby.I always have to sneak out to see my boyfriend and I'M tired of it.when i told my dad i had a boyfriend he was upset about it.the worst part is when i told him my boyfriend had dropout In the 10th grade.my dad doesn't like my boyfriend and think he's not good enough for me because of that.my boyfriend is a sweet guy,he got a job.I been begging my boyfriend to go back to school for over a year now.he always tell me not now.all he need to do is just going to school and meet my dad.he said he doesn't want to meet my dad.'m just tired of everything i just want him to meet my dad that way our relationship be much batter.i meet his mom after she done calling me name.but now his mom like me.2months ago my boyfriend told me his moving to Tampa with his mom.I was so sad to hear this.his a grown *** man I don't know why he can't just moving with a friend. but my boyfriend want me to move to Tampa with him.his mom said i can come If I want too.what i don't understand is why he want me to make that sacrifice of moving to Tampa with him but he can't the sacrifice of going back to school and meet my dad.the only thing he have to do is go to school and my dad would love him
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I think that he should meet him. That's an important part of being in a relationship for so long, but now that your an adult, your father has NO say in what you want to do in your life. He has to except your love and the fact that your not a child. If anything goes wrong, it's time for him to hear ^that. (: *P.s I live in Tampa c:
First with your father I think that he is just really concerned in your welfare sometimes parents although we are old enough to decide on our own they cant help but treat us as if we are still kids.And he is afraid that you leaving him alone.Next in the case of you asking your boyfriend to go back to school, i know you mean well but i think your boyfriend had to realize it on his own the value of education for his life because if you force him I don't think he will be that willing to go in school and might do the same.Third why does he don't want to get to know your father i think that is disrespectful since you have done your part of meeting her mom, also in regards with moving you might should think about it a million times.
