I try and try and try to just keep the conversation going through text. Sometimes he'd answer, but the conversation would be just so vague, for example: ME-"hey:D"
HIM- "hey<3" ME-"wats up?<3" HIM- "nothing<3" he used to ask me back the same but idk...... ME-" ok" sometimes I'd say ME-" this conversation is awkward !!lol!! Srry I'm like trying:D" I'll make seem like I'm saying It in a good way, but I'm serious.
HIM-" it's ok<3"
I feel like he doesn't try to at least maybe text me first, ask me what I'm doing,or make it seem like he cares. Sometimes he wouldn't even respond, and I worry.
I love him, I do and I know he does too but it's just that I think about this too much.
And I'm not 100% sure I'm breaking up wit him, but if this just keeps on happening then I have to be making decisions.
When I'm ready, I'm ready but before that I need to know what I have to say that has to do our communication.
Or maybe we at least need an argument to say the things I need to say instead of breaking up. I appreciate the person who took the time to read all this, and the person who is willing to help me with this difficult situation. THANK U!
What to saying when you want to break up with your long distant relationship boyfriend?
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- 3+ months ago by Piece of ...
- Topics:
- break, conversation, distant, boyfriend, text, relationship, vague
Added 3+ months ago:
It's impossible to not have the time to text your girlfriend! And it hurts cuz I have/ and would/ and would had stopped what I was doing to text my boyfriend, and would wait..:(
Responses (1)
i understand your situation... i hav been through all dis things aswelll.... the things that i did wid the argument i detoriated my relation more but i dnt wnt you to do the same things that i did..... i gav him tooo much importance dan he actualy deservd n now we r nt tokin to each other...:(
okkk so he is nt textin u cz he might be takin you for granted.... so the first thing you nid to do is... avoid him, dnt send him ne such text.... it will b tough at first but control ur self nd avoid him n dnt atend his cals n if u do so den dnt be in a hurry u dnt hav to answer his calls i mean dnt make him feel dat you wer waitin 4 his call or text.....
let him text you first nd u dnt reply straight away wait a lil e.g one hour or so den reply...
d more you gv importance to him d more u willl loose your importance in his life.... so jus avoid him...... if he comes back he realy loves you n if he doesnt den move on...:( u deserve better
and another important thing dont argue with him.... jus stay quite....
lets c how many days your guy takes to call you....
as i said it will b tough but again lovesss road was never smooth so just control ur self sis....:)
do let me know wen he calls or texts
And yes I will let u know
i know it will b tough dear... bt try to control ur self....
that dude asked me out
Thank you for ur advice:)