We used to be close, but I fell in love and she did not. She wanted to stay friends but it hurt me too much. I tried though, but she didn't like how things had become and told me to stop. I have continued to try but only get ignored, I regretfully said some rude things at her, feeling so hurt. I apologized but still havent heard from her. It's been a while now, and her birthday is coming up, I wanted to call and wish a happy birthday (after the day of course, I don't want to ruin her birthday or anything.) Is there anything else I should say? Or just leave it at a happy birthday, since I'm afraid she'll still want me to just leave her alone.
Answers (2)
Well first you should apologize (which you did) but if a girl says enough is enough you should have stop. Now if you wanna become friends then read this, if not don't. Coz you guys will not be the one to get hurt.
First and the best decision to do is just to talk her casually, no flirts or anything as if you're trying to get her back, but do your best.
Second is to actually listen to her request coz, you have been trying to get her now she ignores you coz you have made her mad. So yea don't push the boundaries. Putting that aside, but yea go ahead great her happy birthday, there is hardly harm on saying those words (not unless you keep saying it everyday)...
Personally I would just try to let go of her, especially if she's with someone else. I know you love her, and I know that it hurts like hell being without someone you really really feel for, but sometimes you're better off alone, until you find someone who can reciprocate the same feelings you have. If she wanted to stay friends then, and hasn't made any attempt at being more than that, chances are she's not going to change her mind. And if she did, she would let you know. Just text her happy birthday and leave it at that. Depending on what she replies, you can go from there, but if she doesn't respond, at least you tried. You deserve better. Good luck.