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A buddy if mine is splitting with his girlfriend ( they're not married but have together for years a have two boys). I can tell its affecting him even is he says its for the best. I can only imagine what he's going through.
I don't know what to say or do. Obviously, he's my friend so, I want to help him.
I can only listen really. So maybe get a beer with him hopping he stars talking about it? Should I ask questions or leave him alone?
Any suggestion would be appreciated.
If you haven't already I think you should let him know that if he ever needs someone to talk to or hang out with you're there for him. And if yall do go out for a beer teu not to bring it up out of the blue he'll probably talk about it sooner or later when he's ready and when he does just listen I wouldn't ask questions right off I would maybe ask one or two after he's done talking about it. As far as it comes to giving him any advice tell, ask yourself what would you do if you as in that situation answer from the heart. My parents are in the middle of a divorce its a hard thing to go through and when they talk about it I just listen and let them know I'm there no matter what. Good luck to you .
See basically your friends need a emotional support to beer and some chit chat will be good but try to find the reason for his decision and try to convince to change his decision as marriage of someone is associated with a lot of life's so it can hurt them as well as there children also so be wise and help him out of this.
