My 3 year old son has been showing different behaviors that point to abuse in his fathers house. He's been waking up in the middle of the night 4-5 times screaming "I don't want to, I don't want to." When I try changing his pants or pull up he says "I don't want to, I don't want to, Pants on, Pants on." This made me google signs of abuse, which also lead me to 2 other signs he's showing (he started stuttering a lot a few weeks ago and he's been showing aggressive behaviors) I tried contacting CYS and they told me they aren't trained therapists and that I would need to take him to play therapy. I contacted the 2 places that offer that in my county, and they said they would not be able to evaluate him without his fathers consent because of the custody situation. ANYBODY have any other ideas on what I can do?