i have a condition of tendency kind , the only way i can explain it only by examples:
1. i was searching for buying a car for long time about 4 to 5 months , in this period every time i was trying to pick a car a model , and what happens is that when i walk the street i see this specific model many times everyday on the street passing each time different color different passenger , before i tried to pick the car, i never seen it in the streets

2. a guy who for 7 years driving same car suddenly he picks the right time to buy the car of my dreams in same period that i was looking for a car and i found eventually the type i want , he got it in same color same type same everything even the price is much lower than street price , and he is a neighbor to the place i work , so when i was walking toward my work i saw it , i got mad totally mad i mean this guy for 7 years he could save money to get any kind of car , but he picked the car of my dreams , and the strange in that i never told any person what the car i want to buy .

3. simple example i feel hungry i want to go to kitchen to get food , suddenly my brother gets first there and he eats first and there is no connection whatsoever between us , i mean we would be in different rooms , or if i come back from outside and i feel hungry and then i say ok now i'm getting to kitchen then suddenly someone else get first , and this been happening for many years now more than 10 years

every time i want to get anything someone else take it , and all my life living like that , its a disaster i had enough of that !!!

as far as i searched i got a list of something called: List of cognitive biases ,but still cant get which one or the right one that deals of that and how can i solve this thing